Living the life I want.
19 years ago, my mom gave birth to me after having the you-know-what contribution from my dad which as a result, produced me.
In these 19 years, my parents took great care of me and provided me my very needs as much as their financial capabilities could afford them to, and that I’m thoroughly grateful though I’ve yet to have a chance to really pay them back for what they’ve done for me and are still doing. I believe one day I will and I definitely will.
Besides them, my sister also dotes on me way beyond you would expect any sister to. And thank you sister though chances are you won’t be reading this. Nevertheless I just want the world to know(all right those who actually visits this blog!) that you’re a greatest sister anyone ever can have. (Someone forwards her the permalink of this URL please.)
And other than these family members, I have several primary school teachers who were also great people who taught me great stuffs. No, not those that can be learnt and memorised like any nerds from the books, but life experiences that should I say, can only be imparted and not be read.
Granted, there are also people from all walks of life whom had made a difference in my life. And thank you though I won’t mention names.
So let’s get to topic, apart from being a thank-you-and-finally-recognition-where-due kind of post, I’m also here to say that if you DO NOT already belong to any of the mentioned categories, chances are you won’t ever be (I’ve been wrong before, but I’ll generalise). With that said, you have absolutely no rights to criticise or judge me because you were in no way involved in my upbringing, when I needed a helping hand the most or whatsoever.
Constructive critisms are greatly appreciated though. Tell me an alternative instead of bashing me. Don’t be a lame whore making people’s life miserable by inflicting irrelevant negative comments because at the end of the day, chances are what he or she does has nothing to do with you, really. And even if it somehow does, constructive critism is the only way to go about handling such things, not retarded one-sided judging on your part, ever.
And besides, if you think about it… you would be better off minding off your own fucking business instead of others because I believe no one is perfect and neither are you. So the next time you wish to open your mouth and bash someone, think about yourself and how blessed you are because others could hold their words and accept you for who you are and what you do. Maybe this way you’ll find greater joy in life when one day you realise alas that accepting people for what and who they are will make you feel better because you feel welcomed, you poor soul.
Sure, think you have nothing wrong in judging or critisizing people, I have no say over your life and I’m not about to contradict myself by judging you. Go ahead, live the life you want; and please at the same time, remember that as much as you want to live the life you want without other people’s interferences, everyone else feels the same way: so let them live the life they want, don’t judge. And hereby I’ll thank you on behalf of the six billion other humans walking on Earth.
Thank you, whoever you are. I wish you have a better day ahead of you once you stop inflicting judgements.