Making the move.
I came to realise today that many times in my life I procrastinate enquiring is not due to fear of rejection, but because of my ability (or the lack of) to handle acceptance. You can get away with rejections soon or later without having to do anything about it, but being accepted means a change of lifestyle — and that’s something a lazy person like me isn’t willing to.
Say if I get interviewed for a job, and I am accepted, that would mean my life will then change and I can no longer be the same slacker as I am now. That thought makes me procrastinate because in a way I kind of prefer my current state of life. So putting things to later eventually makes me have a false sense of freedom.
Like the popular term Procrastination is like masturbation, it makes you feel good but you’re really fucking yourself
because soon you’ll realise you’ve just given up a great chance in life.
And it’s especially true in my case. But breaking the habit of procrastination is not easy to achieve, because it’s very likely that I’ll procrastinate that very action. It’s all so complicated, so an advice to you is not to start the habit of procrastination, ’cause it’s a more difficult habit to break than drug abuse.
Really, you can’t be wrong heeding that advice.